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Habits That Survive February
Why health routines collapse in week five, and how to build ones that do not
Habits That Survive February
Why health routines collapse in week five, and how to build ones that do not
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Nearly everyone can keep a new routine for a fortnight. The interesting question is what happens in week five, when novelty has gone and the first bad week arrives. This book is about that stretch: making habits small enough to survive it, and rebuilding them quickly when they do not.
What's inside
- 1The Week Five CollapseExplains what changes between the first fortnight and the second, and why motivation is a starting fuel rather than a running one. After it you will stop treating a lapse as evidence about your character.
- 2Make It Smaller Than You WantShows how to cut a habit down to a version you could do on your worst day, and why the small version protects the big one. After it you will have a minimum for each of your habits, written down.
- 3Anchors: Attaching New to OldUses the routines you already keep without thinking as hooks for the ones you are trying to add. After it each new habit will have a specific moment in your day rather than a vague intention.
- 4Friction, In Both DirectionsCovers making the wanted thing easier by thirty seconds and the unwanted thing harder by two minutes. After it you will have changed three things in your home so that the right choice needs no decision.
- 5Tracking Without the GuiltSets up a record that shows effort rather than perfection, and explains why streaks eventually work against you. After it you will have a tracking method you can look at after a bad week without flinching.
- 6Missing a Day on PurposeBuilds a planned gap into the routine so that the first unplanned one is not a shock. After it you will have practised stopping and restarting while the habit is still easy.
- 7Rebuilding After a BreakGives a three day restart procedure for habits that have lapsed for a week, a month or a year. After it you will be able to resume without the ceremony of a fresh start on the first of the month.
A sample from chapter one
Motivation is a starting fuel
The first fortnight of a new routine runs on interest. The kit is new, the plan is exciting, and doing the thing produces a small private satisfaction. Around week five that interest is spent, and the habit has to be paid for out of ordinary weekday effort instead. Nothing has gone wrong with you at that point. The fuel you started with has simply run out, as it always does.
So the question is not how to stay motivated. It is what your routine looks like on a Tuesday when you are tired, slightly behind at work and it is raining. If the answer involves forty minutes and a bus ride, the habit will not survive that Tuesday. If the answer is ten press ups and a walk to the postbox, it probably will, and it will still be there on Wednesday.
- Write the worst day version of each habit and keep it to five minutes or less.
- Attach it to something you already do without deciding, such as the kettle boiling.
- Move one object tonight to make tomorrow's version easier to start.
- Record attempts, not perfect days, and review the record fortnightly rather than daily.
Key takeaways
- Enthusiasm reliably runs out around week five, so design for the week after that.
- The version of a habit you can do on a bad day is the version that survives the year.
- Restarting quickly matters far more than never having stopped.
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